No, you did not attempt to "maturely state your opinion". You threw accusations of racism at me, you called me a misogynist, you threw every debunked transphobic trope at me, and then had the audacity to say "this comes from a good place".
If you want some unbiased academic research (as opposed to pointing me at Economist articles of all things), have a look at this: https://research-information.bris.ac.uk/ws/portalfiles/portal/139271435/Bristol_Pure_Version_PD.pdf
At the time of writing, 0 cases of cis men pretending to be trans to gain access to women. No effect of self-id on women's safety.
These are not opinions. That's a peer reviewed study with 5 pages of citations to corroborating studies. It's not that we disagree, it's that you are empirically wrong.